Tag Archives: sundry sunday

Sundry Sunday :: a haiku.

5 Feb

The world sucks a lot.
But meliorism, guys!
Be the better thing.

–your fangirl heroine.


Sundry Sunday :: on adulthood (in limerick)

15 Jan

Sometimes all you can do is try
Even though you don’t really know why
There’s things you must do
Mysterious but true
Responsibility’s a lie.

–your fangirl heroine.


Sundry Sunday :: Rose City 2016

11 Sep

Ming-Na Wen was lovely. Summer Glau was lovely (again). Everything was nice and fun and we are very tired but here are some pictures of drift partner and I.



Sneaky undercover beginning of Civil War Natasha and Wanda. Note the sunglasses and baseball hat, aka Avengers sneak kit.



The terrible Jewel costume on Jessica and the Trish who wrought it.

–your fangirl heroine.



Sundry Sunday :: dear friends

7 Aug

Look. I know things can be shitty. Let’s not beat around the bush about it.

But it’s been the kind of week where I have had to congratulate myself on (eventually) getting out of bed, so I’m going to congratulate all of you on the same thing.

It may not seem like much, but it’s something.

So good on you.

–your fangirl heroine.


Sundry Sunday :: my urban dictionary: social triggers

17 Jul

Def.: Behaviors (and such) that, when one encounters them in another person, one bristles involuntarily.

Usage: When husbands speak to their wives certain ways (or men to women in general, honestly), regardless of context, or use certain language, it serves as a heavy social trigger for me.

–your fangirl heroine.


Sundry Sunday :: my urban dictionary: heterosexual oblivion

19 Jun

Def.: The state of heterosexual people’s complete unawareness of anything serious pertaining to the problems that anyone not heterosexual might face or even the existence of anyone not heterosexual.

Usage: Heterosexual oblivion has saved my ladyqueer butt at least half as many times as it’s annoyed me.

–your fangirl heroine.


Sundry Sunday :: 10 things I would like to tell other wlw (especially babies)

5 Jun
  1. Your female friends are probably mostly going to have crushes on boys. You are not weird for not also having crushes on boys and nothing they say or imply changes that.
  2. And that funny fluttery feeling you get thinking about girls sometimes? That, my friend, is a crush. Nobody will tell you this, because you don’t think to mention it to them because you don’t think you can or should, but it is.
  3. It’s okay to be completely sure of yourself and who you are in terms of sexual identity but still not say anything to anyone.
  4. You are perfectly allowed to feel gross when people say words like “dyke” around you, even if it’s not to you, and them knowing or not knowing that you’d take it personal is irrelevant.
  5. You are also allowed to feel gross when people have viewpoints that make you feel unsafe.
  6. You are not obligated to be tolerant of other people’s opinions when those opinions are that you are fundamentally wrong and bad.
  7. You are not fundamentally wrong and bad, or even just a little weird.
  8. Friends you’ve known all your life may not get it like strangers on the internet do, and that’s why we have access to both.
  9. You are valid in your identity no matter how you present, emotionally or physically.
  10. The only correct way to wlw is respectfully and open-mindedly. Everything else is a variable.

–your fangirl heroine.